Thursday, July 12, 2012

Who is Responsible?


                 I think that my whole business is with me only. I am the only friend of mine and at the same time I am the only enemy. No one else has to do anything with the world related to me. No one else is responsible for what is going on with me whether it is good or bad. I am solely responsible for what the conditions are with me. Each and everything in my life is just the outcome of my own deeds.
But still things are not up to my expectation. Then who is responsible? The answer is very simple and obvious as it seems, it is none other than me. It was so simple to answer at this point after this much analysis but really it is one of the most profound things for a person to grasp. And same was the case with me.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

NOT A single Drop of tear


Sometimes I think this is all worthless. Nothing matters if the world I am living in is like this.
I want this, I want that and I want much more than what I have right now and I am working hard for it. I am determined to get it for sure. But why am I not feeling fed up at all at any point in this journey. When shall I get to that point when I would feel no more requirements?
                When I was in the school I wanted a college, when I am in the college then I am trying for a better college after this and then I want a job. And to me even job is not the end I want something of my own providing jobs to others.  When I felt alone I made friends, when I got a little older I wanted a girlfriend, when I shall get it, definitely  I shall start looking forward to marriage, then settlement , then a large accumulation of money, then may be kids. What else? I am adding day by day something new to my plan for a better life. But the question that has shaken me today is that “is this all going to provide me a happy and peaceful life?”

Monday, April 9, 2012

The Habit of "Following"

                   
                      The human race has evolved so much on the basis of following and learning from the past. As soon as we enter into this mortal world we start following what we see around us.  We all should be thankful to the God almighty that out of all the races, human race is best at following and hence they are the best learners. The credit of us being the most powerful, developed and organized living creatures may be attributed to this amazing property of us i.e. following.
                 This is the only reason that made us able to enjoy far better life on the earth as compared to the other creatures. This is the reason because of which a five year old kid is able to use all those past discoveries and inventions which were discovered or

Thursday, April 5, 2012

To Persevere


The word persevere implies one's act to continue in a course of action in spite of difficulty or with little or no indication of success.
       
             Really as a student, I feel this is one of the most important qualities for anyone to be successful at every front. This simple word contains a lot of meanings for me. I want to be the one who is regular with his each and every work in his daily life, the one who is able to constantly focus on his goal avoiding the whole chaos that surrounds him, the one who only cares about his part (i.e. work) irrespective of the result part and the one who is always optimistic and positive with his ideas and views. And I found that if one could develop the quality of perseverance that one could be like the one I want to be.

Saturday, March 31, 2012

Being More than Normal

 
      As a student most of us always desire to live a normal life in future.This is manifestation of  one of the very common and most loved habit of the creatures of animal kingdom and  that is "being fond of comfort"or in other words " Laziness". This is not only our problem but this is the problem of the whole nation leaving few exceptions. And today in a country of more than 130 million individuals these few exceptions are not enough.At least if we are depending on exceptions then we should be standing in support of them. The scenario these days is quite wretched. People don't want their children to go for any change. They just want them to follow others and most of us are doing the same. We are just following others without giving any thoughts to the question   "where our country is going?".

Friday, March 30, 2012

Your Choice :Be an Employee or An Employer

                  Today world is changing at the pace comparable to blinking of eyes.  Economies enjoying a large acclivity today may fall down steeply the next day.No doubt that despite of all these things several companies have gained a lot and are still gaining lot more but a bigger risk factor is involved everywhere in business these days.Not more than a year ago Kingfisher was considered one of the biggest airlines in INDIA. But today they are facing one of the biggest downfall, Indian business world has ever witnessed.At the same time an INDIAN company Airtel has become world's third biggest communication firm.

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Success and You

     Sometimes I am compelled by the situations in my life, to think that what should I do to get to that point. It seems like a mirage. When I see this point coming towards me i feel happiness and move faster to get to it.But alas! what i find is that this point is still a long distance apart.Certainly a normal human reaction comes out in the form of anger. But after few moments a question arises that why am I angry? and suppose if  that point is success and I am angry because i failed to succeed, then the next moment a news question comes that the expression coming on my face is meant for whom?Is it for myself? Am I angry at myself or the situation or something else? Or is it meaningless to be angry at all?
     Several sessions of introspection and deep contemplation results into the answer which is hidden in the last question itself. And coincidentally the final result that comes through this analysis is in direct synchronization with one of the lines of the holy GEETA.
       Here introspection and contemplation means factual quantitative analysis of various aspects which are related to lead us to the point of success in our lives. And this detailed analysis of mine I can summarize briefly under two headings:
- first those points which we can control and second
- uncontrollable points
    
CONTROLLABLE THINGS